i'm learning some friendships aren't worth it. no matter how long you feel you've vested in something if its not growing its dead. friends bring into your life whatever is going on in theirs. if a friend has nothing going on then they bring nothing forward. if a person is constantly negative they will not one day wake up and be positive. it feels like slamming your hand in the door and saying goodbye to everything under the wrist. its sad and kind of hard to let go but there comes a point when you must sever whats already dead because if you don't you risk losing more.
